You may be growing older,

And your step a mite bit slow;

You may not move as fast as once,

But, Oh, God loves you so.

You may think you're not needed.

That your work down here is thru;

But, my beloved oldster,

God has a plan for you.

Your white hair shows the wisdom,

You've gathered through the years;

Your patience stands for victories,

Proves you've conquered many fears.

Your spirit shows that Christ indwells,

His love in you abides;

As these victories flow out from you,

You're a blessing to other's lives.

Oh, don't ever be discouraged,

If others must wait on you;

You've done your share of service,

Just let His light shine through.

So rejoice and live for Jesus,

And to others His kindness show;

You're still wanted and needed,

You're God's messenger, you know!

Live in such a way that your visit will be enjoyed rather than endured. If your life is patterned after the Lord, the patient will be uplifted and encouraged by even the briefest of visits. A visit that is purely out of duty or a product of hypocrisy may last five minutes and yet seem like five hours.

Knock before you enter! Even if you can see the person, make them aware of your presence. Give them a chance to prepare for you, even if it is a very brief preparation.

Plan for your visit to last a maximum of 10 minutes. A person is in the hospital to rest. A long visit may hinder the purpose of the hospitalization.

Be optimistic, but realistic when visiting a patient. You may be accustomed to seeing the person healthy and energetic. Their appearance may be discouraging. Maintain an encouraging disposition while in their presence.

Try to initiate conversation and keep it on a general topic, as much as possible. Allow them to take the lead in any conversation regarding their illness (if it is discussed at all). Do not be too inquisitive about the illness and don't play the role of a doctor.

Show your love and concern. However, be very careful about your emotions.

Ask if there is anything you can do. Be genuine as well as practical. Supplying something practical such as reading material, housework, or yard work may be the best help they could possibly receive.